| Im a step-dad. Well, not yet. I'm engaged to a beautiful and loving young woman. We live in North Ga, somewhat happily until the last couple of weeks. My fiancee's child's father was under strict supervised visitation until this past week. He has had a restraining order placed against him, 2 DFCS investigations (both Ga. and Tn.), has sent racially biased pictures and messages to the childs mother, admitted to striking the child (who is a 3 yr old little girl), and has posted vulgar and drug related pictures of himself on the internet. This person has not been alone with this child in almost 1 year. His visitis have consisted of 2 hours while being over seen by a counselor. This child has been in counseling for 1 year now to do diagnosed post traumatic stress syndrome. This particular county's Judicial system has now written an order, which was written by the father's attorneys, allowing the father 6 weekends in a row worth of unsupervised visitation. The father has 2 attorneys working on this and unforntunately the mother has only one, and her previous attorney agreed to this order without the consent of the mother. She has proof she did not agree to this and was mis-represented, pictures, counselors reports, and more, but yet the judge refuses to amend the order. Would you like to know why? She is basically being discriminated against, and the main victim in the whole thing is this little girl. I don't have any idea on what to do. We are out of money, noone will listen, the judges won't work with us, and her last attorney even insulted and belittled her in an email making comments about her morals and personal life. She is a good person. The child is happy and healthy. This is all wrong. Please offer advice. What do you do when you are a victim of the "buddy system" and you can't seem to find a helping hand, nor able to afford one? We are desparate to help this child. The mother doesn;t want to keep the child away from the father, but she does want to protect her. Now that an attorney who let down his client and a biased judge have signed an order, we have no hope. She will be left to the wolves, and if we refuse to let her go, we will be punsihed. What do we do? We need any help or advice we can get. Please if you have had a similar ordeal or know of someone, or an institution, that could help, please let us know. We both work full time, are students, and are just getting by the best that we can. The mother's parents are both diabled (her father being a disabled vet) and on limited income, and my family just doesnt have it to help us. |